Command Center
ACTIVE 1 open · 1 done ⛭ live from memory · 2026-07-11

Blended family of five kids (three in college, two in HS) plus boxers Zelda and Willow. Jaime is Topher's wife, Aspire co-founder, and AVP of UX Research at Synchrony. Health note: tirzepatide DISCONTINUED early June 2026 (headaches/nausea, low efficacy) — dose reminders retired. Just back from the 3rd annual Otten + Skillen Destin trip (Jun 27 – Jul 4, 17 people). Family & Health judgment calls are always Topher's (charter Tier-3).

Kids 5 — Aubreauna (22), Nick (19), Cayden (19), Kendyl (HS), Kynsie (HS)
Dogs Zelda (brindle) + Willow (fawn) — boxers
Married Vegas, 2018 (Aria is named after the hotel)
Health Tirzepatide discontinued early June 2026 · CrossFit cadence with a friend
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Active Items

Synced from the Kanban board
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Waiting on You

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Nutrition — lunch-skip → 3pm crash pattern

Acknowledged weak point; revisit post-tirzepatide as part of the plain-health baseline.

Done

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Tirzepatide reminder system

Retired with the medication — 5-day cycle reminders + calendar event killed.

✓ 2026-06-30
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Key People

Jaime Otten

Wife · Aspire co-founder · AVP UX Research at Synchrony · Reel (her local editing agent)

Aubreauna (Aubre)

Topher's daughter, 22 — college

Nicholas (Nick)

Topher's son, 19 — college

Cayden

Jaime's oldest, 19 — college; baseball (cayden-baseball.md)

Kendyl

HS — drives the Honda CR-V (see Vehicles drawer)

Kynsie

HS

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Recent Events & Decisions

2026-07-04

Destin / 30A family trip wrapped

3rd annual Otten + Skillen — 58 Sunfish St, Jun 27 → Jul 4, 17 people incl. cousins + friends. Full log in the Travel drawer.

June 2026

Tirzepatide discontinued

Discontinued early June 2026 (headaches/nausea, low efficacy). Dose-N reminders + recurring calendar event retired.

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Memory Files (source of truth)

The markdown files Aria reads for deeper context
memory/drawers/family/jaime-voice-enrollment-script.md

Paste-ready 60-second script for Jaime to record on her phone so Scribe can recognize her in meetings + voice memos. ENROLLED 2026-05-17 evening (2 samples). Kept as the standard re-enrollment script.

memory/drawers/family/jaime-voice-enrollment.md

Reminder to enroll Jaime's voice fingerprint in scribe's speaker DB so meetings with Jaime get her name labeled instead of "Speaker B". One-time, 5 min total. Created 2026-05-16.

memory/drawers/family/overview.md

Canonical drawer surface. Personal depth lives in memory/topher/{health,jaime,kids}.md (per the Greeter map); this dir holds family-adjacent working files.

memory/topher/health.md

Topher's health baseline (canonical)

memory/topher/jaime.md

Jaime — role, preferences, working style

memory/topher/kids.md

The five kids — canonical reference

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